Comments on: Ahh, Cupid http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid » I solder the body electric « Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:33:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Jimmy http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/comment-page-1#comment-841 Jimmy Mon, 14 Feb 2005 21:25:56 +0000 http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/#comment-841 Everyone is unlovable sometimes. When we first got together it was hard to tell where infatuation ends and love begins. After a few years of marriage the infatuation fades and the real battle of learning to share EVERY area of your life with someone else begins. That is why total commitment is so important. There are plenty of days when we are both unlovable. It is at that time you have to choose to love. The times you choose to love you do so because you know that even during a hard time that this person ,who is being difficult, is still your best friend. As a footnote don't forget that the closer your relationship with God is the better your relationship with your spouse will be. Everyone is unlovable sometimes. When we first got together it was hard to tell where infatuation ends and love begins.

After a few years of marriage the infatuation fades and the real battle of learning to share EVERY area of your life with someone else begins.

That is why total commitment is so important. There are plenty of days when we are both unlovable. It is at that time you have to choose to love.

The times you choose to love you do so because you know that even during a hard time that this person ,who is being difficult, is still your best friend.

As a footnote don’t forget that the closer your relationship with God is the better your relationship with your spouse will be.

]]> By: Mary http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/comment-page-1#comment-840 Mary Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/#comment-840 Ahh...I got a good one, didn't I? Ahh…I got a good one, didn’t I?

]]> By: SciFiChick http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/comment-page-1#comment-842 SciFiChick Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/#comment-842 good questions.. when you find out the answers, please let me know as well. good questions.. when you find out the answers, please let me know as well.

]]> By: Rob http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/comment-page-1#comment-843 Rob Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/#comment-843 Good thoughts, everyone! Yep, his name is Ebenezer, Julie. You know, I didn't even consider the "ownership" angle. I know that's not the right word, but you know what I mean. ;-) SciFChick, if I ever do, you'll be the first to know. :-) Good thoughts, everyone! Yep, his name is Ebenezer, Julie. You know, I didn’t even consider the “ownership” angle. I know that’s not the right word, but you know what I mean. ;-)

SciFChick, if I ever do, you’ll be the first to know. :-)

]]> By: Carl V. http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/comment-page-1#comment-844 Carl V. Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/#comment-844 I believe its a combination of spontaneous romance and hard work that make it possible to have 'one true love' and that the giving of yourself wholely to another, while truly sacrificial at times, is one of the key ingredients to finding those romantic moments even years into a relationship. I believe its a combination of spontaneous romance and hard work that make it possible to have ‘one true love’ and that the giving of yourself wholely to another, while truly sacrificial at times, is one of the key ingredients to finding those romantic moments even years into a relationship.

]]> By: julie http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/comment-page-1#comment-845 julie Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/#comment-845 I didn't want to say this cuz I don't want to seem like a goody goody preachey girl, but it's too important to leave out. Here goes... God's love for us is not based on our behavior, our performance, personality, etc. His love is unconditional. It is based soley on the fact that we are His. This is a perfect example of love, that when applied to romantic relationships, will provide couples with "staying power". I still think it's romantic, too. I didn’t want to say this cuz I don’t want to seem like a goody goody preachey girl, but it’s too important to leave out. Here goes… God’s love for us is not based on our behavior, our performance, personality, etc. His love is unconditional. It is based soley on the fact that we are His. This is a perfect example of love, that when applied to romantic relationships, will provide couples with “staying power”. I still think it’s romantic, too.

]]> By: Carl V. http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/comment-page-1#comment-846 Carl V. Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/#comment-846 Oh Julie, you're such a goody-goody preacher girl! ;) Oh Julie, you’re such a goody-goody preacher girl! ;)

]]> By: Julie http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/comment-page-1#comment-847 Julie Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://www.electrolund.com/2005/02/ahh-cupid/#comment-847 You love your cat because he's yours. Of all the cats in the world Ebenezer (is that his name?) belongs to you. That makes him special, along with his own little personality. Sometimes I love James, just because he's mine. I am sure he would agree. I am not always real loveable but he loves me because he chose me. That may sound volitional and sacrificial but I also think it's romantic. To simply be loved because I'm his. You love your cat because he’s yours. Of all the cats in the world Ebenezer (is that his name?) belongs to you. That makes him special, along with his own little personality. Sometimes I love James, just because he’s mine. I am sure he would agree. I am not always real loveable but he loves me because he chose me. That may sound volitional and sacrificial but I also think it’s romantic. To simply be loved because I’m his.

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